Fitting in – is that really important?

When an individual does not fit into the organizational or managerial culture, the costs can be huge on many levels. I have had numerous clients over the years where their lack of alignment to the organization in which they work impeded their ability to succeed in their jobs, not to mention their level of dissatisfaction and happiness in their daily routines. The focus of today’s post is not how to help the individual maneuver through their lack of alignment; rather, I want to offer two strategic suggestions for the organization and its leadership to avoid or reduce the lack of alignment in the ranks.

First, when first hiring and on-boarding employees, watch and listen for what the individual wants, needs, and expects from their new position and the overall company. Typically, even the most inept leaders can tell in the first 90-100 days how a person is going to fit into the team. Many ignore the signs of stress, disconnects, and overall lack of alignment of values, believing it will resolve itself overtime. This is a mistake. As leaders, we own helping these individuals shift into roles, positions, and attitudes to help set the stage for success.  There are many ways to help a person align into the company; such as, rotational assignments, exposure to other functional units and tasks, involvement in strategic discussions, and even assigning mentors to help with the integration. To not embrace newly hired individuals is a missed opportunity, and one that ultimately can cost the company time and  money.

Secondly, misalignment can evolve over time. Company cultures change, company leadership changes, and the overall strategic direction can change. Each of these scenarios can provide fertile ground for even the most  loyal employees to find themselves out of alignment. We have to pay attention and stay engaged with our employees so that we understand where we collectively stand. This can be accomplished through town hall meetings, frequent surveys and interviews,  and even hiring executive coaches to help bridge the gap of understanding and alignment. I have been present in more than one company where the senior leadership wakes up one day and find themselves facing mutiny from key valued employees due to their lack of awareness and alignment to what these employees expect, need, and want. It is not only the job of human resources to help facilitate this awareness – it is our job, as leaders in our organizations, to pay attention to our most valued asset, our people.

“Fitting in” is not a ‘nice to have’ perk of the job, it is a required necessity for our employees and our organizations to achieve sustainable success.